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Rising Above

What is your motto?
“Reality is something you rise above.”

I need to post this quote from Liza Minnelli in my laundry room – a place where I am every day! Minnelli shared her words of wisdom in Vanity Fair November issue. It’s true – you have a choice about how you view situations. Sure is easier to cultivate that rosy attitude after a good night’s sleep.

Gandhi’s Holiday Tip

“There is more to life than increasing its speed.”

Mahatma Gandhi

Tis the season to rush to buy presents, get ready for company, plan big meals, attend parties – and be merry? Hoping to find some slower times decorating cookies with my kids, sitting with a good book looking at the snow fall, and toasting togetherness with family. May you find the slow lane this season…

A Grabber Opening Line

“A hairy forearm mashed my face.”

Elizabeth Sims, first sentence from a novel titled “On Location”

I haven’t read it but am mesmerized… worried… enticed.. by the first line. Sims is a Mensa member.. so perhaps we should check her out…

Lucky Streak ?

“Chance favors the prepared mind.”

Louis Pasteur (December 1822 to September 1895)

Can we have “hot hands” or “lucky streaks” or do talented people, in all walks of life, take better advantage of the opportunities which regularly come their way? I think the later…


Thinking positive ?

“It takes moral courage to uphold a positive culture.” Jim Thompson

With war, dirty politics and poverty topping our headlines, it takes a boatload of moral courage to remain positive. There is always something in my day I can be thankful for – not so hopeful about our “culture” though…

Let it Shine

“Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow that talent to the dark places where it leads.”

Erica Jong

This is a good way to talk back to your inner critic.


Fading Summer

“You’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting.
So… get on your way!”

Dr. Seuss

We’re trying to make the most of summer before school begins – one last play date, swim, camping trip, mountain hike… or just lolling on the deck furniture.

A Fresh Look at Time

“We turn not older with years, but newer every day.”

Emily Dickinson

A wonderful sentence for anyone of a “certain” age who is having a birthday… It reminds me (only in concept, not in subject) of Martin Amis’ Time’s Arrow with its story in reverse chronology. It’s all in your vantage point.

Room With A View

“Windows augment and sear into our memory the beauties of the vistas beyond them…”

So said Klara Glowczewska, Editor in Chief, Conde Nast Traveler.

So as you take vacations and hope for a room with a view, Glowczewska thinks it matters so much to our travel enjoyment, she has compiled a new book titled Room With A View. I don’t want to spend much time in my hotel room on travels – let’s go and do! Yet seeing the views in this book, perhaps sitting, gazing and searing would be wonderful too.

Six Easy Pieces

“It is only you who can make you feel uncomfortable or awkward. I’ve found the whole experience really liberating.”

That’s one participant in theSix Easy Pieces, 31 Challenging Days” experiment chronicled in the New York Times. These women and men decided it was too time-consuming, too consumerist, too whatever to buy and keep closets full of clothes, so they chose six pieces to wear for one month (besides accessories, shoes and undies).

I thought the most telling outcome was that nobody noticed. Yes, in our image-conscious society nobody at work, no friends said, “Hey why are you wearing the same thing over and over?”

How liberating! And yet in an odd reverse way…. maybe that’s more fashionable anyway. One participant began quoting Coco Chanel who said “I don’t do fashion, I am fashion.”